Our men always fall victim of this stunt - Relationship matters
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Please do not let the boys bad-talk you out of carrying your woman’s handbag when you’re out together in public.
No matter how much your friends try to
tease and make fun of you carrying her handbag for her, do not listen to them,
they are just familiar enemies ignorantly trying to take the sauce out of your
relationship, or marriage, and when the sauce is gone, all you will have left
is a tasteless love relationship.
It is just so sad that in this part of
the word when we see a man helping his woman carry her handbag in public we
quickly jump into concluding that his woman is controlling him. I know your
friends may try to use this lines to convince you too, they’ll try and paint
you a picture of how she will no longer be respectful and submissive to you
when you carry her handbag. Pay them no attention, carry her bag proudly and
ignore their foolish tales.
It doesn't make you any less of a man, it doesn’t
reduce her respect and submission to you, rather it amplifies it. It shows that
even though you are her provider, you still honour your primary assignment as a
co-help-meet.
Always remember this lesson; buying
her a new flashy handbag is important, but helping her carry it when she’s
tired is the most important.
For women, it is such a blessing to
have a man who can provide, but her joy doesn’t come in your ability to
provide, her joy comes in helping her make your provisions easier for her to
enjoy.
I hope you understand this?
Taking her to a 5star restaurant is
beautiful, but her joy comes when you are caring enough to hold the door for
her and pull out her chair.
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